自从law of attraction 红了开始，每个人都在讨论如何让它有效，如何吸引你要的人，你要的东西，你要的目标。。其中一个很重要的步骤是要感恩，做Gratitude Exercise 对不对？当然我尝试每天都写三个我觉得很庆幸还活着的理由，有时候好像没有什么但还是觉得可以好好的活着已经很幸福。

这个新年，我第一次买了大概500 块钱的礼物，然后一个接一个的拜访我的顾客。我只是觉得该感谢他们的支持，但料想不到的是顾客觉得很欣喜，再谈之下，马上又有新计划可以一起配合，人生突然间很有希望。。。所以感恩吧，趁这个节日对你想感谢的人说你感谢及在乎他吧！

刚去了一个品牌大师　Ｍａｎｎｅｓ　Ｇｏｈ　的分享会，他说了两个钟，从美国的文化开始讲起，, 比如Starbuck Cafe文化，然后到Cross Cultural,这让我想到时尚界的Louis Vuttion 曾经邀请 日本漫画师Takashi Murakami来设计了那些可爱得让人禁不住想买回家的宝宝，再次俘虏了所有日本女孩还有年轻女孩的心。　记得那一年，我去法国看那场ＬＶ秀，　每个模特儿都像candy girl, 那样甜美 ，　卖的是年轻与可爱，已经把目标锁定年轻的Ｙ　 generation, 不理所谓的太太一族。那一个春夏，每个天天都穿鹅黄，粉红色嫩嫩的，把自己扮得像Ｌｏｌｉｔａ，　还不是因为LV的魅力？

除此，还有Addidas 邀请Yohji　Ｙａｍａｍｏｔｏ， 让球鞋变成艺术品般，你买了就好像是个懂得欣赏艺术的人，如果这样让你感觉好一点，你会不会买？无论怎么 cross , 总会有些特别的惊喜，因为配合的两方为了面子，都会浑身解数的交出最美丽的杰作。

这让我想到两个不同种族的男女结晶，一定很漂亮。 两种不同品种的晶子结合，当然会用尽方法，呈现最美丽的基因。嗯，试想想，那些 mix 的小孩，是不是特别可爱？　 你看那些漂亮精致的名模　Ｍａｇｇｉｅ　Ｑ，　大马的Ｃａｒｍｅｎ　Ｓｏｏ，　Ｅｌａｉｎｅ　Ｄａｌｙ等等还不都是混血儿。所以我想若你已经有点难产，　缺乏创意，不妨找个与你完全不同方向的朋友来创作生产，　也许会产生难以意料的火花呢！嗯，这叫做 cross over!!  要怎么 cross, 怎么找到对的对象，那么你就要到Mannes的Brand Cafe 看看，也许可以找到新点子，http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=132123712717&ref=search&sid=551096023.324534961..1&v=info。 无论如何，最重要要好玩，那是他说的，我也非常赞同，你呢？

You might be amazed of the special effects of Avatar, the latest movie of James Cameron, the creator of Titanic movie that dried many people tears long time back. This year he came back with this animation movie that I never expect to be that spiritual. You might say this is a movie about mother nature, environment but I was touched by the strong message of connection between all beings on this planet as if we are all ONE.

Can you still remember how Jack tamed down the hippo in the Pandora world? Yes it’s by plug in his hair with the animal’s and listen to each other’s heart and instantly both of them are connected. This scenes amazed me and remind me of how simple human being can be if we plug in our senses to connect with each other. You can connect to the earth, to the animals, to any human being if you are willing to open up! If you are a virtual person, than you can connect through the wire, I strongly feel the sub message of WIRE UP YOUR CONNECTION ! It might be easy to plug in yourself through the modern technology but the most important thing is if you are connected with real heart, that’s call TOUCH! Thus some people can simply touch people’s heart, some can’t, is the matter of SINCERITY!

刚从朋友的婚礼回来，她与先生在Langkawi的4 Seasons 举办了一场浪漫的海边婚礼，请我们去见证她的幸福。在艳阳底下，摄氏35度的天空下，我们感受到她与他的爱情。一向来，她都不高调虽然家里非常有钱，可是非常节俭，只有这一次，的确让我们跌眼镜。那天她美得像仙女， 从来不化妆的她，化上淡妆，加上薄纱婚纱，我们都看呆了。

晚上那一场更精彩，在Telaga游艇俱乐部的码头餐厅，我们在海岸上吹着晚风等待新郎新娘， 没有想到他们竟在晚霞的衬托下，用一艄船把他们引上岸，而餐厅外的乐手在吹奏Titanic那首让人感动，会催泪的歌。这时刻，我终于明白无论是什么类型的女人，她都希望有个像梦一样的婚礼，让自己成为梦里最美丽的女主角。 就算我这个超低调的女朋友，都办了这个超浪漫的婚礼，还让整村的亲朋戚友兴高采烈的跳起舞，我只能说，“女人们，不要放弃自己的梦想，无论如何都要坚持

Pink and turquoise is the theme colour

让自己有机会实现你自己的梦想， 因为有精彩的梦，你才可以回味一生，不是吗？所以男人们，你不能怪我们不务实际，梦想天开，爱慕虚荣，如果你连一天的幸福都给不到，怎么能承诺一世的幸福呢？

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This is Subaru

我想跳舞，你想跳舞吗？在舞台上跳舞，Subaru 找到了自己，找到了生命，她不晓得不跳舞，她可以做什么？在8岁开始，她与弟弟已经迷恋上芭蕾舞，后来弟弟病了，昏迷不醒时她开始跳舞让弟弟从死亡边缘回来，但最终死神还是把弟弟带走了。在弟弟走前，她在医院的走廊起舞，那是她生命中跳得最尽情的一次，可惜弟弟已经没有办法再见到了。

后来她有机会参加天鹅舞表演，出场时忍不住发抖，她不晓得为什么？但当她克服后，她把自己的躯体交给舞台，交给了观众，在所谓的生与死的边缘跳出，那是最高境界，让人惊叹与感动！

如果你用你一切的力量，不顾生死，像Subaru那样，我想每个人的生命肯定可以跳出精彩的生命之舞！大家加油吧！

The French spider man, Alain Robert managed to scale Malaysia’s tallest building, Petronas Tower which reached 452m recently. This is his 3rd attempt though he was caught and freed out of country on the second attempt but this time he suceed to conquer this Malaysian’s proudest creation building before dawn.

One of my  journalist friend, Gerald managed to have a up and personal closure interview him and he poured out the typical question , “why do you want to take the risk and do all these? “Do you know what is Alain answer? He simply replied, ” I feel alive”  Alive? He feels he is living when he is climbing, the height and the altitude motivate him to live on to another level. That’s how he feels and I believe he has found his mission of life because of doing this. He  is now giving motivational talk and charging for 10,000 euro / hour after accomplishing all the so call crazy acts. Well, you might not have to climb the buildings in order to find your purpose and mission but there must be something that move you on though there is no payment or whatever return. If you can continue the effort and the passion, the reward will certainly come later, such as this modern spider man!! 10,000euro/ hour , not bad ah?

Well, if you still don’t know what to fight for in life, go and listen to my friend ’s talk this Sat. Gerald Chuah, who has published a motivational book based on Rocky stories, named “The Eyes of Tiger” . He will  share with you his fight in his life from a depress and hopeless, losing direction guy to  one of the top successful editor in town who managed to interview all the world’s greatest speakers, celebrities like Robert Kyosaki, Tony Blair Singer, T. Harv, the spider man and many more. Let him share what is going to burn your fire and fight your life Rocky this Sat at Damansara Perdnana. If you are keen, please call 012-2739732 to find out more!

Check out this link video of climbing Petronas Tower!

如果让你可以拥有回到过去或未来的能力，你会要吗？ 这种超能力，也许能令你富有，因为你可预知未来，但同样的也可预知你的死亡。嗯，现在听来好像很可怕了，是不是？刚看完一套Brad Pitt 制作的电影，Time Traveller’s Wife， 不是很出名的电影，但女主角(Rachel McDam)及男主角(Eric Bana) 演绎得很好，把跨时空的爱情发挥得淋漓尽至。她从5岁开始爱上这个跨时空来找她的男人。她知道他随时会消失，无论是圣诞节，甚至是他们的婚礼，他都会突然间在空气中消失，但她还是愿意等他，愿意嫁给他。 但最悲痛的是他懂得他将离开她永远而去的日子，虽然两个人相爱，还不顾一切生了一个有如此超能力的女儿。她说，“下辈子，我还是要与你在一起。。” 从她开始认识他的那一天，她已经发誓要嫁给那个男人，世界上还有肯花一辈子去等待的爱情吗？曾经我相信，但现在只有好莱坞的电影才会有吧！无论如何，我愿意像女主角那样等待那个会在生命中出现的男人。。http://movies.yahoo.com/summer-movies/the-time-travelers-wife/1809937231

What are the tips to revamp your wardrobe for the year of tiger 2010?

Find out what elements are strong in 2010 and revamp your wardrobe according to your element. This 2010 is a year of tiger and vibrant in metal & word. If you are a tiger like me, I would recommend you to wear more fire element like strong vibrant colour and metal colour like gold or silver. (interview from a Fengsui master, Clement Ng) Besides you do have to look into your external energy colour that go with your skin, hair and eyes as well. Come to this Sat  “Wardrobe fengsui 2010″ at Plaza Damas, N-2-2(Imagic) to find out more. You can call 03-78772268 or www.emagestyle.com / event to rsvp! If not, email me  at info@emagestyle.com to find out more.

Good luck and have fun for your new wardrobe!

我的好朋友雨人（Reint)终于把留了6年的头发剪掉了，在我热烈鼓吹新年新形象（Brand NewYou）之下。我记得有个化妆发型老师说过，“如果你连头发也不敢剪短，那么你的人生肯定也没有什么作为”。 是的， 头发短了，可以再等它长，而且若剪了个适合的新发型， 肯定会带来新能量。 什么是新能量？比如说你自己感觉很好，你的气色就会改变，然后你身边的朋友也会随即感觉你的改变，这自然而然会影响你的磁场。所以所谓的风水发型也是这么 一回事。 改天我再帮我这个老外看看他的五行，才看看到底剪断了头发后，还应该怎么改变服饰？

但我认为他已经年轻了至少10岁，对不对？要怎么改变，请来星期六( ( 9 Jan) 在Plaza Damas N-2-2,（2 pm-5pm） 的新年新衣柜分享吧 ! 请致电找我的漂亮助手Jess ， 03-78772268 或上网www.emagestyle.com/event 报名哦！

Reint Before

Reint after hair cut

Site before

Site after cut

When I was an editor in Citta Bella magazine, we girls in the editorial will try to squeeze our minds on how to inspire our readers on the new year Jan issue as it is the fist chapter and readers are usually looking for some tips to set new year resolution or transformation. As usual, we will write a 10 pages resolution ourselves  to set the examples for sharing and off course at the end of the year, we might laugh at the pages that couldn’t be accomplished and restart all over again the next year. It’s always the case when you want too much and lose focus.

This year, I just let go and enjoy my new year day by letting the days unfold.  Guess what? It turn out to be perfect. I always wanted to go for a meditation retreat but can’t find time. Guess what? On the first day of the year, I registered myself into 10 days Vipasana meditation that coming on the 4th day of CNY. You better kick off something that you have been procrastinate as people said a beautiful start is a good start.Don’t you think so?

Then I supposed to catch the movie, Avatar  which everybody is talking about but end up watching my idol Sarah Jessica & Hugh Grant’s latest love comedy, “Did you hear about the Morgan “and it turned out to be hilarious and healing. This is the dose that I need after quitting my 3 years unfruitful relationship. If you are having some difficulties in your relationship, do go and check out this movie or treat yourself  to somewhere wild like Wyoming and meet a bear. That might help you to discover life and what relationship is all about.

Well, the day end up even better after attending a sharing of an Indian spiritual guru.  Guru Dhyam Vimal said, 2010 is a year for creation, a year to create your reality, a year that can be fulfilling if you take your action no matter it will be success or failure at least you own it. So my dear friends, own your year by knowing who you are and what you want to create. There is no failure in life, the biggest failure is you never even try. These words might be  nothing strange and sounds so familar but  the most important thing is just do it and be a warrior for 2010! Let’s create and celebrate 2010, AHO!